Why I Don’t Drink, and Why You
Shouldn’t Either
People should be free to do anything they want that
doesn’t harm others. The government should never interfere with anything, anything
at all. I am NOT advocating that alcohol should be illegal. I am expressing why
I choose to not drink and am advocating that others shouldn’t either. I make points
that may offend you in this page so please leave now if you are easily offended.
1.
Stuff Happens
2.
Mental Purity
3.
Mean Drunks
4.
Alcoholism
5.
Ill-Health
6.
Kids Learn by Watching
7.
Expensive
8.
Escalation
9.
Fetal Alcohol Syndrome
10.
Who
I Hang Out With
11.
Owning
Firearms
1] Stuff Happens
When you are sober you
can make an intelligent decision regarding not driving while under the
influence. You can make a decision to not have unprotected sex with a stranger.
You can make a decision to not operate dangerous, complex equipment when
intoxicated. You can make a decision to not say things that you don’t want
others to know. However, the second you take your first drink you are making an
agreement with yourself to render yourself incapable of all those rational
decisions. Your ability to reason is gone or disabled and all of the above
things can now happen. You are now capable of deciding to drive while drunk,
have sex with a stranger, operate equipment, say things without inhibition, and
those events are unfixable once they happen. Waking up in the morning to find
out you have a tattoo of a Volkswagon on your right
bicep would stink. Waking up tomorrow morning in a bed with somebody you don’t
know, somebody you now don’t think is attractive, somebody who wakes up and you
realize that they aren’t a very nice person, or they’re 25 years older than
you, or they were pretending to be a girl and they aren’t, or they make a call
telling their friends that you’re married, are all lots of stuff that would
really, really stink. Waking up in jail and not remembering the little girl you
drove over last night but are now going to spend the next 25 years in jail for
killing would stink [for you and the little girl, and for the thousand people
who this would be bad for].
So
I don’t drink.
2] Mental Purity
I am not a body, I am a
brain that lives in a body. My brain is me. It works, it has clarity, it makes
decisions based on my command, and if I do something stupid it is my fault and
there are no excuses. If I drink, then my mind is no longer clear, functioning,
capable of reason, and unable to remember events I had. Some people think this
is fun and funny, I consider it a complete violation. I have a personality. It
might not be your cup of tea, but it’s mine and I would like to keep it. Now if
I were to be drunk, my personality would be different, and it wouldn’t be the
one I chose to have.
So
I don’t drink.
3] Mean Drunks
Some people who drink are
very nice sober, and then are total jerks when they are drunk. They may say
nasty things, they may hit somebody [child, wife, friend,
stranger], they convert to a different person when intoxicated. What if I turn
out to be a mean drunk? I’m not going to find out.
So
I don’t drink.
4] Alcoholism
Every alcoholic had their
first drink. They weren’t an alcoholic before their first drink, it happened as
a result of drinking alcohol. What if I turn out to be an alcoholic and I just
don’t know it yet because I don’t drink? I’m not going to find out.
So
I don’t drink.
5] Ill health
Alcohol can bring on
diabetes or intensify it. Alcohol can whack your liver. Alcohol can get you
killed via crashes [I don’t consider alcohol related crashes as accidents, I
consider them assaults], and it can get others killed.
So
I don’t drink
6] Kids Learn by Watching
Kids don’t learn what you
tell them. They defy you, they don’t pay attention to you, and other things. So
when you tell them not to drink it is meaningless instruction. Kids will do
what they see their parents do. If you drink and they see it, sense it, smell
it, hear of it, or become aware of it in any way, they too will most likely
drink. You telling them that it’s for adults only and they shouldn’t do it
won’t mean a thing when they show up to a party and alcohol is available and
they have seen you do it. They will defy you and drink. This goes for moms,
dads, uncles, aunts, grandparents, teachers, pastors,
anybody who they consider a role model or authority figure.
So
I don’t drink,
7] Expensive
Alcohol costs money.
Things that cost money ought to offer entertainment, service, product, should be an asset, not a liability, increase
rather than diminish your life’s quality. Alcohol sucks money out of your
wallet and converts it into disasters. The disasters may show themselves now or
later, but they’re there nonetheless.
So
I don’t drink.
8] Escalation
People escalate from one
behavior to another. Marijuana is an escalatory drug, and so might be alcohol.
Since you are rendered incapable of making rational decisions when intoxicated,
then the rational decision to not take more severe drugs would be gone and the
experimentation might occur. These escalations may include meth-amphetamines,
which are so instantaneously addictive that people will go from a normal life
to total addictive turmoil in a very short period of time. Smoking cigarettes,
cigars, pipes, marijuana, crack, taking other drugs and drinking alcohol are
all behaviors that can lead to these other behaviors. A beer with a cigarette.
A joint with some PCP. None of this stuff is for me,
So
I don’t drink.
9] Fetal Alcohol Syndrome
Women who drink while
pregnant most probably will damage the fetus and this child will have learning,
processing and emotional problems their entire life. Furthermore, they will
most-likely become alcoholics, and will most-likely drink while pregnant
themselves. This, like poverty, seems to be generationally transmitted.
10] Who I Hang Out With
I don’t drink. I selected
a woman to be my wife and one of the reasons was that she too does not drink. I
do not want to be with an intoxicated person. I selected my friends. They don’t
drink. I am not going to be friends with unreliables who
drink. I do not want them telling other people things I have disclosed to them,
which drunk idiots do. I do not do business with people who drink. I choose to
not work for people who drink. I observe through telescopes with my friends. I
do not need an intoxicated moron dropping one of my $800 eyepieces. When stuff
like that happens it isn’t an accident. They drank and therefore made a
decision to do stupid things with my property. That makes it a fault situation
not a no-fault accident. Coworkers who drink are sick a lot and make up reasons
about why they aren’t at work. “I wasn’t feeling very good” is a lousy thing to
hear from a person who has a hangover. They lie, justify, and make the
workplace miserable.
So
I don’t drink.
11] Owning Firearms
I own firearms, which
together with alcohol is amazingly insane. A responsible person with firearms
generally is a good thing. Firearms keeps us free, safe and prepared. Alcohol
and those firearms is an eventual disaster. When you remove your ability to
make good decisions, and you have weapons nearby, you are a special kind of
stupid.
So
I don’t drink.
11B] Firearms Personal Checklist
I’m a pilot, and before I
fly not only do I pre-flight my aircraft, but I also pre-flight myself. If I
fail my own pre-flight, I do not fly. The method I use is called “I’m Safe”. IMSAFE is an acronym for Illness, Medicine, Sleep, Alcohol, Fatigue, Emotion.
If I fail any of the items, I don’t fly. If I’m on medication, I don’t fly. If
I’m sleepy, I don’t fly, etc. So since I mentioned that #11 involved firearms, I thought I’d additionally mention that I
use IMSAFE before carrying my weapon. Concealed Carry has a huge
responsibility, and a “pre-flight”, or in this case, a “pre-carry” checklist is
warranted. I don’t drink, but if I did, it would stop me from carrying or using
firearms. This included prescription drugs such as pain narcotics. When I had
major back issues and was given intense narcotics at the hospital, and even
steroids, I disallowed myself to carry as a result until I was certain they had
been flushed of my system. The results of not following this have two levels.
One is that a person could have an unintentional discharge resulting in a
horrible event as a result of being less that suitable to carry. A second issue
is that if a legitimate event occurred, such as defending myself and my wife
against a criminal, even if justified, a civil suit against me could occur if
they knew I was on alcohol or drugs, even if prescribed legitimately. So I
choose to not carry if my IMSAFE fails.